the waiting game

i hate to wait for people. but i always end up waiting. i know sometimes it's due to work, that's why i don't like to make arrangements after work especially if the other party is known to be always late. i'm quite an impatient person and i wonder if all these waiting sessions are meant to train my patience. i would rather not train in this manner. although i'm quite free, but don't make me waste my time this way. it's ok to wait for 10-15 mins, but some of them made me wait for 1 hour. and then you can't lose your patience because that is your friend. duh.....